They DO. For:
missing meetings for work
having a good job/income/house/vehicle
"allowing" my wife to work when she doesn't need to
never commenting
never going in service
skipping meetings for weeks at a time
always showing up after the song/prayer
wearing a beard most of the time
shall I go on? My wife also feels the cold, judgmental shoulder from our local cong. She thinks it's just the locals, but soon she will see it is all JWs.